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Question continued: Should they be recited by a) one who has Yahrzeit on Friday b) one who has Yahrzeit on Shabbos or c) both a and b? Answer: Our Minhag is that the Kaddish after Mizmor Shir is said…Question continued: Should they be recited by a) one who has Yahrzeit on Friday b) one who has Yahrzeit on Shabbos or c) both a and b? Answer: Our Minhag is that the Kaddish after Mizmor Shir is said by mourners who commemorate a Yahrtzeit either on Friday or on Shabbos. Sefer Haminhagim page 27 As for the Kaddish after Bame Madlikin, if it’s said before Borchu (as in many kehillos), the same rule applies. However if it is said at the end of Maariv, then only one who has a Yartzeit on Shabbos should recite the Kaddish. …Show more
Question continued: I am a Rov of an Ashkenazi Shul and occasionally we have Sefardim who frequent and need to say Kaddish. There are Ashkenaz congregants who would like for the Sefardim to say Kaddish in Nusach Ashkenaz as to…Question continued: I am a Rov of an Ashkenazi Shul and occasionally we have Sefardim who frequent and need to say Kaddish. There are Ashkenaz congregants who would like for the Sefardim to say Kaddish in Nusach Ashkenaz as to not cause confusion. What should be done? Answer: The Sefardim should follow the Minhag of the Shul in such a case, unless the extra words are said in an undertone and quickly. ראה שו״ת אג״מ או״ח ד,לד. אשרי האיש א, יא, יב. אהלך באמתך כו, יב-ג. יגל יעקב מכתב יח, א. אול״צ ב, ה,יא. וראה קובץ אליבא דהלכתא…Show more
Question continued: Is there any source for what people say that a child should not begin to wear Tzitzis until they are toilet trained? Is there any source pro or against a child starting to wear Tzitzis a while… Question continued: Is there any source for what people say that a child should not begin to wear Tzitzis until they are toilet trained? Is there any source pro or against a child starting to wear Tzitzis a while before their 3rd birthday, like when they are just 2? Answer: Before toilet training: This is a matter of custom. In some communities they had this custom. There are obviously practical reasons for doing so beyond the issue of respect for the mitzvah. There is no halachic objection however to starting earlier and many indeed do so. Under 3…Show more
Question continued: Should it be when the price goes up? When it’s sold? Does Maaser need to be given before one invests it in another stock? Or should it be when one actually get the cash? Answer: Maser should…Question continued: Should it be when the price goes up? When it’s sold? Does Maaser need to be given before one invests it in another stock? Or should it be when one actually get the cash? Answer: Maser should be deducted when one has a realized gain. One is not obligated to give Maaser from an estimated gain (i.e. increased stock value, which is not cashed in). One should therefore give Maaser from any dividends paid or from capital gains, even if reinvesting the money, because the gain is realized, before choosing to reinvest. #13119 Show more
One may not intentionally deceive anyone, including non-Jews, but it is permissible to take advantage of a mistake made by a gentile (ta’us akum), unless doing so will cause a chillul Hashem. In the event where… One may not intentionally deceive anyone, including non-Jews, but it is permissible to take advantage of a mistake made by a gentile (ta’us akum), unless doing so will cause a chillul Hashem. In the event where it is possible for him to find out that he made an error, one may not take advantage of his mistake. It’s best to say "I am relying on your calculation" in order to ensure he isn't trying to test you. In this case that the one behind the counter noticed the mistake, you the money should be returned to…Show more
A woman should not indulge herself with matters which arouse erotic thoughts. From the verse “do not stray after your heart and after your eyes…” – we derive that one may not arouse erotic, promiscuous thoughts. It is worth… A woman should not indulge herself with matters which arouse erotic thoughts. From the verse “do not stray after your heart and after your eyes…” – we derive that one may not arouse erotic, promiscuous thoughts. It is worth adding from Kuntreis Pokeach Ivrim chapter 9, where the Mittler Rebbe strongly admonishes women that they too must protect their eyes and thoughts. They should be careful not to gaze at the beauty of men or engage in idle chatter with men. Ultimately, such thoughts could also lead to other negative emotions or behavior, and possibly lead to Heaven forbid,…Show more
Negel Vaaser shouldn’t be washed over dishes unless one is certain they will be rinsed afterwards. ראה הליכות שלמה תפלה כ הע׳ יא. אשי ישראל ב הע׳ עב. See here and here regarding washing kids hands. #13034
Here's a link to the spoon. Answer: This would be problematic to use on Shabbos, see here: https://asktherav.com/can-i-use-on-shabbos-a-black-mug-that-when-you-put-hot-water-in-it-the-mug-changes-from-black-to-whatever-picture-you-have-on-it/ #13063
One should wear his Tzitzis with a Bendel as done by day. However when sleeping it should be preferably a Bendel without metal. Sources: באג"ק חי"ג ע' כ"ט שיהו כשירות גם בעת השינה…
Yes, a Minyan just for Kriyas Hatorah may be done for Mincha of Shabbos. The only change would be that a Chatzi Kaddish would be said right after the Kriyah (as opposed to when Davening Mincha - i.e.,… Yes, a Minyan just for Kriyas Hatorah may be done for Mincha of Shabbos. The only change would be that a Chatzi Kaddish would be said right after the Kriyah (as opposed to when Davening Mincha - i.e., the Amidah right afterwards - when the Chatzi Kaddish is recited by the Chazan while the Sefer Torah is being returned to the Aron Kodesh). (Of course, if a Minyan is being arranged just for Kriyah not in a Shul etc., one must make sure to follow the special guidelines that apply in such a case. See here.) See here…Show more
There are four options: 1. Put on the Tefilin Shel Yad backwards, so that the (usual) back of the box is facing down, and the Kesher will be on the inside (opposite the heart). 2. A less desirable option… There are four options: 1. Put on the Tefilin Shel Yad backwards, so that the (usual) back of the box is facing down, and the Kesher will be on the inside (opposite the heart). 2. A less desirable option is to put it on the regular way, and the Kesher would be facing outside, and you would wrap the straps inwards. 3. A third option is, if possible, to manually remove the retzuah completely and put it in through the other side of the box. This should only be done if the yud of the tefillin is touching the…Show more
As long as they were packaged by a store or company that has separate section just for produce, it's fine, as you can rely that the knife is used just for that. See last paragraph in Halacha2Go #599. גם… As long as they were packaged by a store or company that has separate section just for produce, it's fine, as you can rely that the knife is used just for that. See last paragraph in Halacha2Go #599. גם בדברים שאינם חריפים מצריכים גרידה (ואם אינו דומה לקשואים, עכ"פ הדחה), ראה יו"ד סימן צו סעיף ה ובנו"כ. #13088Show more
The prohibition of sleeping on one’s back does not apply to women. Generally, there’s no need to sleep with a pillow. However, there are health considerations too. These obviously apply to women as well. Sources: שכיבת פרקדן - שו״ע אבן העזר סי׳ כ"ג סעי׳…
It depends on the weight content of silver, not the percentage. The amount of silver required (for those that are stringent to use coins that are actual silver) is approx. 9.6g. The 90% coin has a total of 11.25g… It depends on the weight content of silver, not the percentage. The amount of silver required (for those that are stringent to use coins that are actual silver) is approx. 9.6g. The 90% coin has a total of 11.25g of silver, so it’s good. But the 40% coin has only 4.6g. #13110Show more
One may wash children’s clothing if they are of the age where they regularly soil all their clothing. One may only wash that which is needed for the Moed. Towels that are soiled on a regular basis may be… One may wash children’s clothing if they are of the age where they regularly soil all their clothing. One may only wash that which is needed for the Moed. Towels that are soiled on a regular basis may be washed too. Please see the link for clothing of adults: https://asktherav.com/laundry-on-chol-hamoed/ שו״ע תקלד א, ערוך השולחן תקלד ח משנה ברורה תקלד יא. #11413Show more
Yes. However, there are several conditions. See details in Seder Birchas Hanhenin chapter 11. Here are some of them: If they grow as grass, or on a soft stalk, the Berocho is Borei Isvei Besamim. If they grow… Yes. However, there are several conditions. See details in Seder Birchas Hanhenin chapter 11. Here are some of them: If they grow as grass, or on a soft stalk, the Berocho is Borei Isvei Besamim. If they grow on a hard stalk, and certainly if they grow on a tree, the Berocho is Borei Atzei Besamim. If one is unsure how it grows then they should recite the Berocho Borei Minei Besamim. On fruit which possess a good smell one should make the Berocho Asher Nosan Raiyach Tov Bapeiros. This applies only if the fruit…Show more
There is no official optimal time to say the Mi Sheberach for those who need a Refuah Shleima. However, it is usually done at the end of the Torah reading. In any case, it should not be recited between… There is no official optimal time to say the Mi Sheberach for those who need a Refuah Shleima. However, it is usually done at the end of the Torah reading. In any case, it should not be recited between the Maftir and the reading of the Haftorah. See here: https://asktherav.com/13764-when-the-one-receiving-maftir-has-to-bentch-hagomel-when-exactly-should-he-do-so/ #3196bShow more
One calls the Maftir after reciting the Half-Kaddish. Source: Sharei Efraim 9:1 #3196a
Questions: Is Maos Chitim only for Pesach food, or all expenses? Can I donate to someone who is eating out all Pesach but needs the money for other Pesach expenses? Can I use Maaser? Answers: Maos Chitim was… Questions: Is Maos Chitim only for Pesach food, or all expenses? Can I donate to someone who is eating out all Pesach but needs the money for other Pesach expenses? Can I use Maaser? Answers: Maos Chitim was originally instituted as a tax on every person to help those that are in need for Pesach with wheat or Matzos. Over time it has been extended to include food in general and even other Yom Tov necessities. Today this tax is not in effect but we still give sums of money to support those that need for Pesach. Maaser…Show more
If he will keep a new Jewish name, then give him a Jewish name while calling him up to the Torah. If he won't keep the name then call him up with his secular name. He should be called… If he will keep a new Jewish name, then give him a Jewish name while calling him up to the Torah. If he won't keep the name then call him up with his secular name. He should be called up with the father's name that he is familiar with, but you should try to verify if possible. פשוט. וכ״כ בנתיבים בשדה השליחות ח"ב ע' 69-70 מסברא. #3218Show more
Only when bearing the OU symbol. See here on OU's website. #3242
Here are two methods: Method 1: 1. Remove the four outer leaves and discard them. 2. Check the outside of the head. If there is a hole that penetrates into the head, cut around the hole into the depth of…Here are two methods: Method 1: 1. Remove the four outer leaves and discard them. 2. Check the outside of the head. If there is a hole that penetrates into the head, cut around the hole into the depth of the head as far as the hole penetrates. 3. Freeze the head of cabbage in a freezer for at least forty-eight hours. 4. Remove the head of cabbage from the freezer and let it defrost. 5. Direct a stream of water at the leaves, on both sides, making sure to cover every spot. Method 2: 1. Clean the cabbage by…Show more
No, one doesn’t fulfill their obligation by giving to a child under Bar or Bas Mitzva. Sources: מאורי אור (עוד למועד - קל, א). בית עובד…
It is permitted but should not be put at eye level. Nonetheless, rumor has it that the Rebbe was opposed to this, even when not on the eastern wall. See here: https://asktherav.com/6062-is-it-permitted-for-my-students-to-daven-facing-a-wall-that-has-a-rebbe-picture-on-it/ #3232
Generally, when the father dies, his firstborn son - if he was born naturally - receives a double portion and the rest is divided equally among the other sons. Only biological children inherit - not adopted children; only paternal… Generally, when the father dies, his firstborn son - if he was born naturally - receives a double portion and the rest is divided equally among the other sons. Only biological children inherit - not adopted children; only paternal relatives - not maternal ones; only sons - not daughters (unmarried daughters receive a percentage of the assets, not a regular portion). Spouses do not have equal rights to each other’s inheritance. Husbands inherit from their wives only property that she owned or owned jointly at the time of her passing. Even when there is no will, often the siblings…Show more
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