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Is Play Fighting Permissible?

  Question: My son under 13 is very sensory. He feels the need to jump on people, play fight etc. Is it permissible for a father to play fight with…

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  • Kibud Av V'Em (Honoring Parents)
  • הלכות כבוד רבו ות"ח, יו"ד רמ, יו"ד רמב

כבוד רבו מובהק

  שאלה: בט"ז סי' רמ סקי"ב נפסק במי שמת אביו ר"ל, שאין לו לבן להתנהג ב"שב ואל תעשה" ולא לומר שום לשון של כבוד לאחרי אמרו שם אביו, כי הוי…

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Kibud Av when the father askes for a certain food that will cause him suffering

  Question: If someone suffers from a condition that certain foods will aggravate and he will suffer from it, but he still craves those foods and he asks his child…

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  • Kibud Av V'Em (Honoring Parents), Shidduchim
  • יו"ד רמ

Is there an issue of a son-in-law having the same name as a father-in-law?

  Does it matter if they are called slightly different i.e. Mendel versus Mendy? If they both have the same exact name, one of them should add a name. Different…

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  • - עברית, Kibud Av V'Em (Honoring Parents)
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האם אני מחוייב לכבד לאחי התאום היותר מבוגר? ובכלל, מהו אופן הכיבוד באח גדול?

  א. יש חובת כיבוד אחיו הגדול בתאומים להנולד ראשון. ב. אופן הכיבוד באחיו הגדול - בדברים, וכן לקום מפניו, ועל דרך כיבוד אב ואם. אבל לא ממש. ואין דין…

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  • Kibud Av V'Em (Honoring Parents)
  • יו"ד רמ

Is it Halachically wrong to tell a parent that you feel they hurt/insulted you?

  Question: Is it wrong according to halacha to tell a parent (respectfully) that you feel they hurt/insulted you? If a parent doesn't seem to be understanding the child (I.e.…

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  • Kibud Av V'Em (Honoring Parents)
  • second marriage, step father

Can a person call their step father by his first name if that is the title he would feel comfortable with? And would it be better to add “Reb” or “Mr.”?

  Yes, as long as their mother is fine with it.   Sources: חייב אדם בכבוד בעל אמו משום כבוד אמו - שו"ע יו"ד סי' רמ סכ"א. אבל אינו חייב…

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  • Kibud Av V'Em (Honoring Parents), Spending Ma'aser
  • יו"ד רמ

Maaser for transportation to the hospital

  Question: My mother is in the hospital for a week already and we don't know when she will come home yet. All siblings have been taking turns to visit…

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  • Kibud Av V'Em (Honoring Parents), Mourning (Aveilus), Spending Ma'aser
  • Matzeiva, יו"ד שמה

Can we use Ma’aser money to pay for a Matzeiva-tombstone for our father?

  No. As it is an obligation on the children and one may not pay for an obligation with Masser.   Sources: ראה שו"ע יו"ד שמה, ב. ובבית הלל שם…

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  • Kibud Av V'Em (Honoring Parents)
  • Kibud Av Va’em, יו"ד רמ

Do my parents have the power to make me do whatever they want?

  Question: What does Torah say about grandparents offering parents a suggestion regarding Chinuch of their grandchild? What if parents say they are not interested in hearing any suggestions? Does…

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  • Davening, Kibud Av V'Em (Honoring Parents)
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If I’m Davening and no one says Kaddish Yasom, should I say Kaddish even though I have both parents Bli Ayin Hora?

  No. Unless your parents are not Makpid. Even in this case, if there is someone there who has no parents you shouldn’t say it. The common custom, however, is that…

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