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Torah approach to dealing with anger in the context of Chinuch

  Question: As a parent and teacher, I sometimes get upset by my children or students behavior. I'm wondering what the Torah approach is to dealing with that anger in the…

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  • - עברית, Chinuch, Shabbos Candle Lighting
  • Shabbos Candles: Missed, או"ח רסג

קנס לאשה שאמרה לבנה הקטן להדליק עבורה נש”ק לאחר השקיעה

  שאלה: מעשה שהיה שבת שעברה. אשה התרחצה סמוך לשקיעה ולא הדליקה נרות. מיד אחרי שקיעת החמה ראתה שלא הדליקה נרות וביקשה מבנה הקטן בגיל שבע שידליק נרות. הילד הדליק…

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  • - עברית, Chinuch
  • knas, punishment, yeshiva, קנס

האם מותר לקחת קנס כספי מבחור בישיבה?

  שאלה: האם מותר למנהל או משגיח בישיבה לקחת קנס כספי מבחור שאינו מתנהג כדבעי בשביל שייטיב דרכו? באם מותר, האם צריך להחזיר הממון כשהבחור מסיים זמנו בהישיבה? ובאם אין…

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  • Chinuch
  • college, מסייע

My son wants to go to college…

  Question: My son wants to go to college. He knows that I don't want him to. I don't think he is considering Jewish colleges, or a college online. He…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Upsherin
  • Areinfirnish, Hachnasa L'Cheider, הכנסה לחדר

Should/Can the Areinfirenish be held on the same day as the Upsherenish?

  Q. Is there an Inyan in having the Areinfirenish the same day as the Upsherenish? A. No.   Q. Does it make sense to have the Upsherenish after davening,…

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  • Chinuch

How to properly reward children for their good behavior?

  Question: When rewarding good behavior, Is it at all oisgehalten to choose certain missions that are mandatory, meaning if they miss those mandatory ones, they will not get rewarded…

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  • Brochos (Birchas HaNehenin), Children-Chinuch, Chinuch

Can young children learn a Bracha, part at a time?

  For example: To say the first couple lines of asher yatzar (repeating after the teacher word by word). Once they've mastered this, to add on another line etc.  …

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Kriah (Alef-Beis & Nekudos)
  • dikduk

Teaching שבא stars in the Siddur

  Question: From the 5 rules of שבא, children typically aren’t taught the rules relating to תנועה גדולה/קטנה. Nor are they taught the שבא rules of the רז"ה. a) Should…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Matzah, Pesach
  • gebroks

Can children have Matzah and cream cheese?

  If it has no water, yes. PS Some are lenient with children before the age of chinuch with gebrokts in general. Others are lenient to put the cream cheese…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch
  • 12 pesukim

When saying the 12 Pesukim are you supposed to say Hashem’s name by והנה and ישמח?

  It should be pronounced as "Hashem" without saying the actual name, because it’s not a Posuk.     #13001

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Tzitzis
  • Children, Chinuch, toilet training, tzitzis

Is it encouraged or discouraged for a child under 3, and not toilet trained to put on Tzitzis?

  Question continued: Is there any source for what people say that a child should not begin to wear Tzitzis until they are toilet trained? Is there any source pro…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Customs
  • Children, Chinuch, non-kosher, pets, Toys

Is there a problem to have a pet parrot?

  Yes, it is problematic, though of course it is permissible according to Halacha. In general the Rebbe spoke about the importance that children should only see Kosher animals and…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Muktzeh, Shabbos
  • Chinuch, Shabbos, toilet training

Can we toilet train using a wetness alarm without a battery on Shabbos?

We're working on toilet training a 4 year old who's been a difficult customer. He is now wearing a wetness alarm that goes off if there is an accident. Not…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Talmud Torah
  • nittel nacht

האם צריך למחות במי שלומד בליל הניטל? ומה אם זה ילד?

  אף שמנהג זה יסודתו בהררי קודש ונתפשט בתפוצות ישראל, ולא רק אצל חסידים, ונהגו בו מדורי דורות, כידוע ומפורסם, ומילא מובן גם שיש לחנך הילדים לקיים המנהג - מעולם…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Kiddush, Shabbos
  • kiddush in 7th hour, Shalom Bayis, או"ח רעא, או"ח שמג

When not making Kiddush between six & seven causes difficulties

  Question: I know the minhag of many is not to make kiddush between six and seven. This was what I remember my custom in my parents' home. My question…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Talmud Torah
  • Alef Beis

At what age is it appropriate to start teaching a toddler Alef Beis? And is it a problem to start earlier?

  From 3 years old the child should be taught the letters. Beforehand, as soon as the child is able to speak, he should be taught תורה צוה, שמע and…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch
  • hergesh

Is there an advantage to using a Tehillim Ohel Yosef Yitzchok over using another Tehillim?

  I prefer kriah age children using a Tehillim with larger print and no Trop; however once parents purchase such a Tehillim for their child, likely he will continue using…

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  • Chinuch, Maaser, Spending Ma'aser
  • teacher training course

Is it permitted to use Ma’aser money for a teacher training course?

  Maaser is intended to benefit the poor. Nonetheless, it is customary to use Maaser money for other non obligatory mitzvos. If this is an obligatory training course, Maaser may…

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  • Brochos (Birchas HaNehenin), Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Tzitzis
  • Shehecheyanu, סדר ברכת הנהנין פרק יב

My son seems eager and ready to put on Tzitzis (2.6 years old), does he make Shehecheyanu?

  No, because the Bracha of Shehechiyanu for Tzitzis is for the clothing of it, not the Mitzva, and a Tzitzis is not (generally) considered an important garment in this…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Upsherin
  • Areinfirnish, Hachnasa L'Cheider, הכנסה לחדר

When is the correct time to make an Areinfirnish (Hachnasa L’Cheider)?

  There is no set minhag for the exact day for this. However it seems that the accepted practice is to do it close (but not before) the boys third…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Negel Vasser

Should I be washing my baby Negel Vasser properly?

  Full Question: I read on AskTheRav that the Alter Rebbe says that since the Bris one who doesn't allow your baby to touch food without Negel Vasser is considered…

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  • Children-Chinuch, Chinuch, Tznius
  • -, amusement park, animals, mashpia, theme parks

Is it permissible (Halachically/Hashkaficlly) to take my kids to Walt Disney in Orlando?

  It hard to say there is something Halachicly forbidden about this. However, it definitely is not something I would recommend. The general atmosphere in theme parks are not in…

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  • Chinuch
  • -, מסייע

My daughter is involved in seemingly illegal activities and occasionally asks for my help, such as lending her money. I don’t want to be a part of it. 

  Question Continued: Am I right not to support her with this, which might lead to a colder relationship from her end? As it is, her Yiddishkeit is fragile, as…

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  • Birth, Children-Chinuch, Chinuch
  • Shir Lamaalos card

Until what age should we place Shir Lamaalos on a child’s crib, car seat etc.? Is this the same as to how long they should be up on the doors of the house?

  For shmira purposes, it’s enough to keep it for three or seven days (or, according to some, four weeks or thirty days). However, there is an additional reason why we…

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  • Chinuch, Tzedaka

I know that giving Tzedakah in merit of something specific is allowed – ובחנוני נא בזאת, my question is, is this the ideal way of giving Tzedakah?

  I'm asking because I'm working on a children's project, and I'm wondering if it's appropriate to mention to the children that this project was sponsored lizchus/leiloy nishmas... Should children…

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