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Taharas Hamishpacha

  • Taharas Hamishpacha
  • onah, יו"ד קפד

Is a woman permitted to tub bathe and/or swim on an Onas Prisha?

  Question: Rav Braun, I am writing to ask if you can please clarify the issue of tub bathing and swimming on an Onas Prisha - both Onah Beinonis and…

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  • Taharas Hamishpacha
  • intimacy, relations, או"ח רמ

Is there an Inyan not to nurse a baby right after having relations? If yes, for how long?

  Yes, one should not nurse immediately after relations. One should wait 48 minutes. However, if the baby is crying, 24 or 18 minutes would suffice.   Sources: ראה זהר…

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  • Mikvah (Women), Taharas Hamishpacha
  • יו"ד קצח

Encountering a non-Jew or a non-kosher animal after Mikvah

  Does the Halacha of returning to the mikvah after seeing a goy or non-kosher animal apply only to a live person or animal or to even a picture on…

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  • Calendar, Pregnancy, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • pregnancy, יו"ד קפד

Does a pregnant women need to keep the Veses Haflagah?

  Yes, all vestos that fall out in the first three months (90 days) of pregnancy must be kept.   שו"ע יו"ד סי' קפ"ד סעי' ז.     #9640

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  • Taharas Hamishpacha
  • intimacy, או"ח רמ

What exactly is the area (“oso makom”) that a man can’t see or kiss?

  It applies to the entire vagina, i.e. vulva, the lip, labia, clitoris, but not to the surrounding pubic area.   פשוט. וראה עזר מקודש אה״ע כה, א. וכן מובן…

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  • Birth, Mikvah (Women), Pregnancy
  • Infertility, segulah

Segulah of going to Mikvah during pregnancy

  Question: My wife is beginning her ninth month, her family has the minhag to toivel in the ninth month. I also have heard that toiveling afterward is a segula…

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  • Taharas Hamishpacha
  • יו"ד קפו

With the first three bedikos after marriage, do the bedikos qualify if there was no gmar bi’ah?

  Answer: No. The bedikos should be repeated. Nonetheless, it is recommended to ask personal question from a Rav in each situation.   Sources: ראה שו"ע אדה"ז סימן קפד סק"ו…

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  • Mikvah (Women), Taharas Hamishpacha

Hatoras Nedorim for changing Minhag of amount of Tevilos

  Question: When going to the mikvah, my wife has done 9 tevilos, for many years, she feels that this is too much for her and would like to do…

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  • Sleep, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • bed, direction, intimacy, או"ח ג

Is there a preferred direction of a bed according to Halacha?

  For a married couple, the bed should be placed in north-south, unless if it's not easily done.   Sources: שו"ע או"ח סימן ג סעיף ו, שוע"ר מהד"ק ט-י ובמהדו"ב…

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  • Taharas Hamishpacha, Women
  • Machshavos Zaros, Tahara, women

What types of improper thoughts are prohibited for women?

  A woman should not indulge herself with matters which arouse erotic thoughts. From the verse “do not stray after your heart and after your eyes…” – we derive that…

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  • Taharas Hamishpacha
  • intimacy, אה"ע כה, או"ח רמ

Question about relations face to face

  Question: My wife and I are in the sixty's, she has spinal pain issues and it is difficult for her to lift legs when we are together. So I…

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  • Mikvah (Women), Shiva Nekiyim, Taharas Hamishpacha

Bedika before Mikvah?

  Question: For any number of reasons, medical, covid and other, I was unable to go to the mikvah since December. I am able to go now. I did my…

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  • Mikvah (Women), Taharas Hamishpacha
  • יו"ד קצט

איזה הכנות למקווה ניתן לעשות יום לפני המקווה על מנת להוריד מהלחץ של יום הטבילה?

  מותר לקצוץ הצפרנים והשערות. שאר ההכנות צריכים להיות ביום של הטבילה.     #10611

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  • Shiva Nekiyim, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • white night gown, יו"ד קצו

How important is it to wear a white night gown?

  Question: I have a white night gown for Shiva Nekiyim. Since it is white it is somewhat see through. To get out of bed I must put on a…

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  • Harchokos, Taharas Hamishpacha

My husbands birthday will be during Harchakos time. What am I allowed to do?

  You are allowed to prepare a special dinner for your husband. Of course regular Harchokos have to be kept such as having a heker, serving the food with a…

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  • Calendar, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • Onas Hachodesh, יו"ד קפט

If wife started her period on 30th day of month and next month only has 29 days, when is Onas Hachodesh?

  No need to be concerned for veses hachodesh. Ona beinonis should be kept, of course, on day 29.   Sources: בב״ח סי׳ קפט, טו מחדש שאפשר לקבוע וסת לר״ח.…

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  • Shiva Nekiyim, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • יו"ד קצו

Is it enough to wear a white skirt under a colored nightgown during Shiva Nekiyim?

  Yes.   Sources: ראה: רמ"א ביו"ד סי' קצ"ו ס"ג, סד"ט בסי' ק"צ ס"ק מ"ה, פותח שער סי' י"ח אות ב', שיעורי שבט הלוי סי' קצ"ו ס"ג ס"ק ג, טהרה…

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  • Mikvah (Women), Taharas Hamishpacha
  • אה"ע כה, או"ח רמ, יו"ד קפו

Shalom Bayis Advice

  Question: Dear Rabbi, My husband lately is very busy at work during my 2 weeks following mikvah. He is home and attentive mikvah night but most of the 2…

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  • Calendar, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • after birth

Does a Reiyah after birth go on the calander?

  Question: After having my child last Nissan (77), I made a Hefsek Tahara in the end of Iyar. If I remember correctly, it was on Sunday 25 Iyar. 5…

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  • Harchokos, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • יו"ד קצה

Eating from one cookie jar during Harchakos

  Question: Regarding not eating from the same dish while wife is Niddah, what are we supposed to do regarding a container with cookies (the cookies are placed directly into…

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  • Taharas Hamishpacha, Tznius
  • intimacy, shimras einayim, או"ח רמ

Is masturbating allowed for a woman?

  A woman should not indulge herself with actions which arouse erotic thoughts. On the verse "do not stray after your heart and after your eyes..." - we derive that…

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  • Harchokos, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • יו"ד קצה

Recliner During Harchakos

  Question: During Harchakos, are husband and wife allowed to recline on a 2 person couch that each seat reclines independently? Is it like laying on the same bed, or…

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  • - עברית, Calendar, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • יו"ד קפד

האם אנחנו נוהגים וסתות אחרות חוץ מעונה בינונית, וסת החודש, ווסת הפלגה

  כל עוד ואין ווסת קבוע אין לחשוש יותר מזה. אבל יש ווסתות אחרות שחוששים אליהם מתי שנקבעו, או שנקבעו לחומר, כווסת הסירוג והדילוג ואכמ"ל. [אם כוונתך לימי המבוכה שדנו…

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  • Taharas Hamishpacha
  • intimacy, relations, או"ח רמ

Until what age is it appropriate to have a baby sleeping at night in the parents’ room?

  A husband and wife are forbidden to have relations in front of a child who is able to speak if he is awake. From the simple reading of Shulchan…

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  • Harchokos, Taharas Hamishpacha
  • Shalom Bayis

A sensitive marital question

  Question: Dear Rav, My wife and I are both modern orthodox. We have been married nearly 10 years and have 2 young children. We both abstained from premarital sex,…

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