Is it okay if my wife accepts Shabbos significantly earlier than I do?

 

Question Continued:

She would like to light candles before my son’s bedtime so that he can watch her lighting.

 

Answer:

Yes – as long as the candles are being lit after the time of plag hamincha (which is 1 and 1/4 seasonal hours before shkiah).

 

See more here:

Alter Rebbe’s Shulchan Aruch 261:5

Halacha2go.com article #173: Early Maariv

 

 

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