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Question: I have noticed that pores al shma (or just a short kedusha) is not usually done in Lubavitch shuls. Is this the official Chabad minhag or should it be done when needed? Answer: While these concepts are… Question: I have noticed that pores al shma (or just a short kedusha) is not usually done in Lubavitch shuls. Is this the official Chabad minhag or should it be done when needed? Answer: While these concepts are mentioned by Poskim, including the Alter Rebbe in his Shulchan Aruch, various theories have been offered as to why they are not commonly practiced in Lubavitch. It is worthwhile to note that the Rebbe mentioned regarding a similar concept (reciting Borchu at the end of davening, though different from our subject due to it not being brought in the Siddur)…Show more
Atifa bkitfa every time they have relations. Chapter 23 whenever there’s a possibility of her becoming pregnant. Nonetheless, it’s a good idea to say it every time too. See here: https://asktherav.com/6305-does-a-wife-say-tehilim-chapter-23-before-intimacy/ #10550
The wife should also say it. Sources: מקורו בפע״ח שער קשעהמ״ט יא. משנת חסידים ליל שבת…
Tonight (Thursday) and tomorrow (Friday) this should be avoided, as it is Rosh Chodesh, unless you do this every Erev Shabbos. See here: https://asktherav.com/can-should-i-cut-my-nails-on-rosh-chodesh-which-falls-on-erev-shabbos/ Next week, better to avoid it, however, there is room for leniency if it is… Tonight (Thursday) and tomorrow (Friday) this should be avoided, as it is Rosh Chodesh, unless you do this every Erev Shabbos. See here: https://asktherav.com/can-should-i-cut-my-nails-on-rosh-chodesh-which-falls-on-erev-shabbos/ Next week, better to avoid it, however, there is room for leniency if it is done L'Kovod Shabbos. See here: https://asktherav.com/736-can-i-get-a-manicure-pedicure-eyebrows-waxed-in-9-days/ #5010Show more
All three should be avoided this week, the week of Tisha B’av, even this year when Tisha B’av falls on Shabbos. Explanation: Cutting nails this week is a Machlokes. Every manicure and pedicure involves filing which is considered… All three should be avoided this week, the week of Tisha B’av, even this year when Tisha B’av falls on Shabbos. Explanation: Cutting nails this week is a Machlokes. Every manicure and pedicure involves filing which is considered cutting. Since it’s more than plain cutting as its beautification, and it can be delayed, it should be avoided. Same with eyebrow waxing which many poskim consider like a haircut. Sources: נחלקו הפוסקים באיסור נטילת צפרניים - רק בשבוע שחל…Show more
Yes. מועד לכל חי י, יח. כה״ח תקנא, קז. בא״ח דברים י. ולהעיר משו״ת שאילת יעבץ א, פב. #5015 #5018
No. Sources: שו"ע תקנא יז. קיצור שו"ע קכב, ב. וראה היום…
A Siyum on the radio, phone or video is acceptable and one may eat meat. However, L'Chatchilla one shouldn't rely on this and should make or hear a proper Siyum. This applies only to those who would otherwise join… A Siyum on the radio, phone or video is acceptable and one may eat meat. However, L'Chatchilla one shouldn't rely on this and should make or hear a proper Siyum. This applies only to those who would otherwise join a siyum. Sources: מעדני שלמה ב בשם הגרשז״א. שלמי מועד ע׳ שמט.…Show more
Question: Each week the women of our community gather for a class on Shabbos Afternoon. On Shabbos Tisha B'Av it is my turn to host. What are the rules as far as what we could do with our time?… Question: Each week the women of our community gather for a class on Shabbos Afternoon. On Shabbos Tisha B'Av it is my turn to host. What are the rules as far as what we could do with our time? Can we learn Inyonei Moshiach and Geula? Is there anything we are NOT permitted to learn? Can we share stories, Divrei Hisorerus? Answer: There are deferring opinions regarding Torah study on this Shabbos. After Chatzos it is proper to study only those topics that are permitted on Tisha B'Av. If this is a regular occurrence every Shabbos, one may…Show more
מותר. מקורות: ראה שו״ת שלמת חיים שי-יא. הליכות שלמה בין המצרים…
You should remove your mind from this completely and serve Hashem in a happy manner. It should be noted that according to the strict Halacha one may eat meat in the nine days. The custom, however, is not to.… You should remove your mind from this completely and serve Hashem in a happy manner. It should be noted that according to the strict Halacha one may eat meat in the nine days. The custom, however, is not to. In this case, where it was done in error, there is no need to worry. Still, since the Rebbe instructed on many occasions to people who erred in a Halachik matter that they should learn the halachos of that matter, you should, therefore, learn the laws of the nine days in Kitzur Shulchan Aruch. You should also give extra Tzedaka.…Show more
Question: About Tisha B'Av - I am a really bad faster. I'm not nursing or pregnant, I have 6 kids Ka"h, my youngest is 3. Still, I could not make it through the fast on Shiva Asar B'Tammuz. I… Question: About Tisha B'Av - I am a really bad faster. I'm not nursing or pregnant, I have 6 kids Ka"h, my youngest is 3. Still, I could not make it through the fast on Shiva Asar B'Tammuz. I had to break my fast around 3:00 pm because I was extremely dizzy and weak with a major headache. What should I do on Tisha B'Av? I want to be able to fast but if I get sick is it worth fasting part of the day? At what point is it ok to break my fast? I usually feel guilty…Show more
Question: If someone has an investment property that they need to close in the 9 days, otherwise they will lose the property and the deposit on the property. Is that allowed? Answer: When there would be a substantial… Question: If someone has an investment property that they need to close in the 9 days, otherwise they will lose the property and the deposit on the property. Is that allowed? Answer: When there would be a substantial loss involved otherwise, you may close the investment property deal during the nine days. This is especially the case if this is you do this for a livelihood. If it would be possible to delay the deal for a small extra fee, this is praiseworthy. Source: Shulchan Aruch (Orach Chaim 551:2) & Mishna Berurah 11 -12. Question: What…Show more
You may buy glasses during the three weeks unless it's just for pleasure. עיין משנ״ב תקנא, מה. #4969
Question: I am purchasing a 2nd hand couch from a friend in the next days, as she will be moving shortly, she asked me to pick it up during the nine days, as she will be leaving during the… Question: I am purchasing a 2nd hand couch from a friend in the next days, as she will be moving shortly, she asked me to pick it up during the nine days, as she will be leaving during the nine days as well and she is not frum, I am wondering that being that I am paying for it before the nine days, am I allowed to pick it up during the nine days being that for me it is a new item? Answer: You may purchase the couch. You should pay for it before the nine…Show more
כן. מקורות: ראה שו״ת צפע״נ ב, י. והובא בלקו״ש חכ"ו ע׳ 73…
The custom is to avoid going, although strictly speaking, halachically it’s permitted. When there is need to go (she really wants, etc.), it’s best not to be in the same room as the deceased and generally to stand at… The custom is to avoid going, although strictly speaking, halachically it’s permitted. When there is need to go (she really wants, etc.), it’s best not to be in the same room as the deceased and generally to stand at a distance. #4998Show more
Do we do it as on a regular Shabbos, hot water, soap/shampoo, whole body at once? Answer: Nowadays the common custom is to take a regular shower. ראה משמרת שלום. והאריך בזה בקובץ בית אהרן וישראל תשע''ז.… Do we do it as on a regular Shabbos, hot water, soap/shampoo, whole body at once? Answer: Nowadays the common custom is to take a regular shower. ראה משמרת שלום. והאריך בזה בקובץ בית אהרן וישראל תשע''ז. #807Show more
It was the Minhag of many elder Chassidim to say Krias Shema while wearing a hat and jacket as well as a Gartel. However it's not a halachic requirement, rather it helps one focus better and have proper Kavanah… It was the Minhag of many elder Chassidim to say Krias Shema while wearing a hat and jacket as well as a Gartel. However it's not a halachic requirement, rather it helps one focus better and have proper Kavanah while saying Krias Shena. The Brochoh of Hamapil should be said while already in bed (obviously while dressed appropriately to say Hashem's name). Sources: ראה במכתב הה״מ ונדפס בהתמים ב ע׳ שלב (663)…Show more
The Rebbe encouraged even those who Davened Be'arichus to begin with the Minyan. Regardless, starting so close to Chatzos is itself problematic. You should begin earlier. #5004
For little kids that soil their clothing frequently they are both acceptable. Even for older kids, this year they are both acceptable. Generally, ironing without water is better than washing. Sources: בגדי קטנים - בד״ז יש עקולי ופשורי טובא, דמחד…
You should wash enough clothes for all the nine before the nine days begin. If children under the age of Chinuch (6-7 years old) have made their clothes dirty and it must be washed, it can be washed preferably… You should wash enough clothes for all the nine before the nine days begin. If children under the age of Chinuch (6-7 years old) have made their clothes dirty and it must be washed, it can be washed preferably before Shabbos Chazon. Children over the age of Chinuch should not wash their clothes just like adults. If possible a child should turn on the Machine. שו"ע תקנא, ג. וראה שם סעיף יד. ומדלא הגיה הרמ"א על המחבר משמע לי' להחיי"א (כלל קלג סי"ח) להקל שאינו אסור עד השבוע שחל בו תשעה באב. וכ"ה במשנ"ב סקפ"ב. אבל ראה פמ"ג…Show more
שאלה: ראיתי בשיחה שכ''ק אד''ש מזכיר את דברי אדה''ז בסידורו ע''ד עלות השחר במדינות הצפוניות, שלכן תענית י''ז בתמוז מתחיל בחצות הלילה, ושלכן אפשר להמשיך ההתעדות עד חצות הלילה. אף שאפשר לדחוק בכמה אופנים, אבל כבר ידוע סגנון כבוד… שאלה: ראיתי בשיחה שכ''ק אד''ש מזכיר את דברי אדה''ז בסידורו ע''ד עלות השחר במדינות הצפוניות, שלכן תענית י''ז בתמוז מתחיל בחצות הלילה, ושלכן אפשר להמשיך ההתעדות עד חצות הלילה. אף שאפשר לדחוק בכמה אופנים, אבל כבר ידוע סגנון כבוד הרב בסדרת המאמרים בהתמים שמדייק באופן נפלא בדברי הרב, אולי יאיר עיניי איך קשורים דברי אדה''ז למעשה בפועל בארה''ב. צילום של השיחה - משבת י''ז תמוז נדחה כ''ד בסופה מענה: כמה ניסו כוחם להסביר, הן ע״ד הדרוש - ע״פ שו״ע מהדו״ב סי׳ א (הרב ראסקין במילואים לסידור), והן ע״ד הפשט (ע״י אופנים מחודשים בחשבון זמן עלות השחר - הרב…Show more
1. One may not eat meat on Rosh Chodesh. 2. If necessary, one may taste the Fleishig food when preparing it for Shabbos, provided that it is expelled without swallowing. #4941 (1-2)
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